Being the same person when I'm around and when I'm not goes a long way with me. This is truly relative. If you want to know what I find attractive it's probably pretty apparent if you've ever met us together. Growing up around strong, amazing women who accepted less in life from their partners than what they deserved was part of my history. I desired someone who found betrayal foreign, had a kind spirit, but would protect me at any cost (his words) without any need to advertise that fact. A humble, strong man who works hard and is always as he presents was something new for me. So that was a start.