Sex and Relationships

Honest, real life, advice on sex and relationships by therapists who understand the complexities of sexuality, arousal, and attachments.  

Relationship Hacks 8 Ways to Help it Last Right Now

Posted on Jul 3rd, 2020

How can I help my relationship survive? Click this video for more information on what you need to add and take away from your relationship.

I am Concerned Menopause will Affect My Sex Life What Can I Do?

Posted on Jun 28th, 2020

Over the years, we've received may requests for answers on how to combat menopause.A person born with ovaries will experience menopause, but the experience may vary, depending on their gender...

Arienne, What makes a Guy attractive ? Dear SexBecause

Posted on Apr 18th, 2020

Being the same person when I'm around and when I'm not goes a long way with me. This is truly relative. If you want to know what I find attractive it's probably pretty apparent if you've ever met...

Hedonism II, Negril, Jamaica -15 Things to Know before you Go! Vacation Planning

Posted on Apr 11th, 2020

We get it. You're curious. Jamaica beckons. You like the culture. The undeniably incredible beaches of Negril and the people. Don't forget about the people. Jamaica has some of the most beautiful...

My Girlfriend Questions: 8 Questions To Ask Your Wife To Remind Her She Is Still Your Girlfriend

Posted on Apr 11th, 2020

I couldn't put her into words if I tried.What you attract is a heavy indicator of who you are as a person. The common denominator in a bad relationship history will always be YOU. Developing a...

Dear SexBecause, What Is Dyspareunia?

Posted on Jan 20th, 2020

Dyspareunia is painful sex due to medical and/or psychological causes. The pain can primarily be on the external surface of the genitalia, or deeper in the pelvis upon deep pressure against the...

Dear SexBecause What is your best advice for a newlywed couple Podcast Ep11 Short

Posted on Jan 19th, 2020

We originally decided not to release this due to the camera focus issues and misspellings. As a "demo copy" it was created a while ago to create a format rather than be a solid copy. After...

Dear SexBecause, How Can I Move On From Past Hurts? HELP?!

Posted on Jan 16th, 2020

Your demons of the past can affect the continuity and joy available for the future. In this video, Charlie and Arienne of SexBecause.com discuss the impacts of past first and how to help you are...

Dear SexBecause, I am Unable to Orgasm! What is Anorgasmia?

Posted on Dec 27th, 2019

Anorgasmia is the persistent inability to achieve orgasm despite responding to sexual stimulation. Not often discussed but we explain in great detail the affect and some possible symptoms of...

Controlling Relationships! 7 Tips to GET OUT!

Posted on Dec 15th, 2019

Relationships exhibiting controlling behavior by a partner knows can take many different forms. Partners of any age, gender, sexual orientation , relationship design, or economic status can be in...

Dating Advice: 8 Ways to SUCCESS in a New Relationship

Posted on Nov 20th, 2019

Starting a new relationship is hard. Keeping it is even harder. Charlie and Arienne, Sex and Relationship psychotherapists and authors of PTSD and Sex and Fight Night: How to Conflict Together and...

Top 2019 Sex Fantasies Explained!

Posted on Nov 20th, 2019

When your wifey is looking at you like, “what on Earth are you talking about??!”, about but allows you to keep right on talking until you look at your notes! #topsexfantasiesof2019 #sexbecaise...

7 Helpful Things to Do When Your Nudes Have Been Leaked

7 Helpful Things to Do When Your Nudes Have Been Leaked

Posted on Jun 11th, 2019

This is becoming a larger problem with the proliferation of smart phones and social media. So you took a sexy photo in private and now its on the Internet? Maybe we can help.

9 Tips: Letting Go of Your Ex

9 Tips: Letting Go of Your Ex

Posted on Jun 11th, 2019

Sometimes its hard to say goodbye, but you have to do it. Here are a few ways to help make this process less painful. Charlie and Arienne discuss the challenges that come with breakups and provide...

6 relationship defenses

6 Relationship Defenses

Posted on Jun 11th, 2019

Psychotherapists, Charlie and Arienne of SexBecause.com list the 6 ways we defend ourselves from our partner. This prevents cohesiveness and closeness which further breaks down trust and intimacy...