The SexBecause Show

The SexBecause Show is an off the cuff discussion on sex and relationships. Bringing real talk that may make some blush. Their dialogue is balanced by their over 27 years clinical experience in both trauma, sex, and relationship therapy. The SexBecause Show is published as a podcast and video podcast and can be found weekly wherever podcasts are available with daily episodes beginning November 6, 2018.

Charlie and Arienne are quickly becoming known as The Sex and Relationship Resource with their Knowledge Bank series. Some have called it the “Wikipeda of Sex and Relationships with over 1,000 videos and 7,200 blogs in 8 languages covering every topic relevant and imaginable to sex and making a relationship of any design succeed. With over 25 years of clinical experience, in the office and online, as well as having true passion for one another, the result can be impulsive and balanced all at the same time.

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Arienne and 23&ME: Part 1 Risk vs. Reward

Posted on Dec 14th, 2019

Not knowing the identity of your biological father isn’t always easy to digest. In this frank, unfiltered video we discuss a Black Friday purchase of a 23&Me Kit and what comes next for...

Dear SexBecause, I Don't Feel Attractive and it Impacts US!

Posted on Dec 5th, 2019

We accept the love we think we deserve. what happens when we don't love ourselves enough to allow others to share intimacy deeply. When we have a poor sense of self worth this can impact all...

Dear SexBecause We have heard Racism is Dead but at Family Dinner This Happened...

Posted on Nov 30th, 2019

All holiday dinners are not created equal. One of the more difficult topics that has plagued society deal with racism, sexism and personal worth. When elements of faith and self righteousness are...

The Rachel Starr Interviews 01 of 15: Dating Rachel Starr

Posted on Nov 20th, 2019

Dating in the internet age is hard, it's even more difficult when you're a worldwide sensation and Adult Film Star, Rachel Starr! In this interview with Charlie and Arienne of SexBecause, Porn Star...

The SexBecause Show Ep. 06: Dear SexBecause - He’s having orgasms and I’m not. WTH?

Posted on Nov 20th, 2019

Dear SexBecause is hosted by psychotherapists, Charlie and Arienne where they answer your questions about sex and relationships. In this show, they discuss the importance of being responsible for...

The SexBecause Show Ep. 01:The Infidelity Question

Posted on Nov 20th, 2019

Sex and relationship psychotherapists, Charlie and Arienne with SexBecause, introduce themselves and discuss infidelity and reasons people cheat. They also go off on a tangent about their issues...

The SexBecause Show Ep. 02: PTSD, Sex, and Popping Molly's

Posted on Nov 20th, 2019

Sex and Relationship psychotherapists, Charlie and Arienne discuss how PTSD can affect your sexual enjoyment, arousal network, and relationships, as well promising current clinical trials using...

The SexBecause Show Ep. 05: Sex After kids or F it I'm Too Tired

Posted on Nov 20th, 2019

Charlie and Arienne, Sex and Relationship psychotherapists, have seven kids in the house and understand first hand how having children affect sexual desire and arousal. On this episode of The...

Rachel Starr Interviews 02: Vagina Appreciation during Masturbation May:)

Posted on Nov 20th, 2019

The term, "stop being a pussy" is ridiculous. Psychotherapist Arienne Williams from SexBecause.com and Rachel Starr have a quick discussion on why this is so while her husband and colleague...

Dear SexBecause, I Still Want To Have Sex With My Ex But I Cant!!

Posted on Nov 20th, 2019

Psychotherapists, Charlie and Arienne, answer a viewer question about what to do when you miss the great sex with your ex but you aren't sure you are being desired in the same way.

Does Size REALLY Matter (to you)? Spotlight Interview with Arienne and Kayla

Posted on Nov 20th, 2019

What happens when you put two well educated human beings on one couch with wine and such? Hilarity! At The Lorenzo Hotel- Dallas, a viewer asks the age-old question, "Does SIZE Matter". The...

Do You Have Daddy Issues? Spotlight Interviews with Arienne and Kayla

Posted on Nov 20th, 2019

Second video in our "Arienne and Kayla" series, Charlie gets to the root of all this talk on "Daddy issues" and whether everyone seems to have them. Is this a "real" thing or an excuse, and if so...

Why Dress Sexy and Get Offended When Objectified? Spotlight Interviews with Arienne and Kayla

Posted on Nov 20th, 2019

Is this even fair?? In the third video of this installment. Charlie asks Arienne and Kayla to be honest about their intentions and expectations when wearing the skimpiest of clothing. the answers...

Roleplay to Keep Drama at Bay- A Quick Tip from Rachel Starr and SexBecause

Posted on Nov 19th, 2019

We discuss the benefits of an "alter ego" in the bedroom. Can playing "Doctor and Patient" in the bedroom create more sexy opportunities outside of it? How do you do it in a long term relationship...

The Infidelity Question

The Infidelity Question

Posted on Jun 11th, 2019

How can to better define infidelity and how to deal with it. Click for more!

couples therapy

Couples Therapy | 10 Tips

Posted on Jun 11th, 2019

Couples therapy can help clarify miscommunication, lesson frustration, improve intimacy, work through a crisis such as infidelity, and improve overall relationship satisfaction. Charlie and...

Ptsd & popping molly

PTSD and Popping Molly- MDMA and PTSD

Posted on May 21st, 2019

PTSD can adversely affect almost every aspect of a relationship. Let the team show you how to identify problem areas and give some tips that may help.

She sleeps naked

She (Arienne) Sleeps Naked!

Posted on May 21st, 2019

So she sleeps naked. What does this mean? Is it a good thing? Probably! Click and visit with the team as they discuss.

paranormal movies and naked friends

Paranormal Movies and Naked Friends

Posted on May 21st, 2019

PTSD can adversely affect almost every aspect of a relationship. Let the team show you how to identify problem areas and give some tips that may help.